Monday, June 12, 2006

Relatively I

My friend says I am obsessed with relationships. I am. Who wouldnt be?

Because I was born as a daughter, became a sister , friend, wife, mother , aunty, bhabhi, chachi employee, subordinate, etc. Everyone perceives me differently. I am not one of the superwoman who match up to everyone’s expectation.

Everywhere we go, as a part of the society we form bonds. I cant live as an individual. Yes, I should try not to lose my individuality.

7 comments:

Shankari said...

Khudi ko kar buland itna ke har taqdeer se pehle
Khuda bande se ye poche bata teri raza kya hai

endevourme said...

/-Trying to find out who I am.
thats so true in ur case :)

Saroj said...

Chitra,
The day we come to this world, that day itself we started living different relations. We are not alone, so we need to play so many roles. We cannot be only wife or daughter. But, of course, we have our own identity, which always remains there.

Khushi said...

relationships... sigh!!!

priya said...

Relationship exists as you said in different ways. You cannot escape or live alone.

Obsession is not relationship. When we are able to get along with people whom we like, it matters a lot. But as an individual we are different when we compare with groups.
Individuality is what we think and do from heart rather being someone.

chitra said...

Priya, I agree wih you. but most of the time, i dont get time to be myself. There are times I am a mother, and try to put an image so that my son can emulate me. Similary, as a daughter in law i hav a totally diff. personality, as a daughter another.
the only time, i get to be myself, is when I am the editor of the blog or when I am with my friends.

priya said...

Good 4 u chitra....